Are you sure he is your boyfriend? He kinda sounds like a GIGOLO, Lady’s man (or he tries to be anyway!) Personally I could not live with that. You an either stay there to have a place and accept the cheating or move out or stay and cheat yourself just share the house per say.
GURL I THINK U HAVE GOT URSELF IN A NOT SO GOOD RELATIONSHIP. DON’T TRUST HIS *** AT ALL. WHAT DO U MEAN PAY THEM BACK? IT’S TOO MUCH FOR THE 06′ GOING INTO THE 07′. STEP IT UP AND STEP OUT!
Just from what I have read, he seems to not be satisfied with you. And I personally CAN NOT deal with a man that has female friends that he runs off with and has coffee with…how much coffee can one person drink in a day? Something sounds wrong, talk to him about it and then determine if you are willing to put up with it! My advice…find a better man!
You’ve been dating for 2 months and moved in with him over a month ago? Had you only known him a couple of weeks at that point? What possessed you to make such a HUGE move with someone you hardly know?
No…you should not believe they are just friends he’s chatting with…I can’t believe you even felt the need to ask this question, as if you were unsure of what’s going on…
It looks like he is becoming less and less interested in you. But this happens all the time with guys. My best advice for you and your feelings would be to start shopping for a new boyfriend. But if you really like him and want to make it work, just ask him if he is happy being with you.
Girl i went through EXACTLY The same situation. Drop him now! My ex talked to girls online all the time, until i finally caught him. he woudl tell them he was single and whenever he got mad at me, he would actually meet them. This is not right. If he has you as a girlfriend, then he needs to be w/ just you. if he wants to be talking to all of this other girls and meeting them, then he needs to be ALONE. THis is a trust issue, and is not going to change. I thought it would after giving him many changes, but it doesn’t honey. u will always wonder who’s he talking to. there’s tonsof guys outhere and you will survive this.
best of luck hon,
no beacuse if he is talking online to girls and asking them if they want to met you and have some coffe that is called a player so i don think you should be going out with him
Well I just read a book about a guy who was always owing woman money. That book turned out by saying he was married to God knows how many woman and was put in jail for embezzlement and fraud. He also killed his own children for their insurance money. This was a true story as well. But anyways let your heart guide you. If you feel this guy is lying to you then leave. If you feel he is being truthful then stay. Although I wouldn’t lone him any money and if you leave don’t forget anything. Plus if he was happy with you you would think he would leave the Internet to the real lonely men out there.
Absolutely… he’s addicted to online cheating. Stay away from them.. they’re dangerous. I was with my ex for 7 years and cheated on my soo many times like that. He always told me that they were friends, and that he’ll break off connections. Never happened, and always found more girls online. Its not good especially he has women asking him to return their things and pay them back. Thats almost sick. Please get out ASAP, its a red flag. The longer you stay, the more this @ss will hurt you. You deserve so much better!!
LOL! Of course they’re friends- he hasn’t been dating them long enough for them to be anything more– yet.
Your so-called boyfriend is chatting with and dating other women– and lying to you by calling them friends. No- he’s dating.
Move out- when you boyfriend is dating other women, it’s so over.
And a man who truly loved you wouldn’t be on the computer hunting for other women. Don’t be stupid. And stop being such a little weakling, cowering in the corner so afraid to upset the little *******. Sheesh!
I **** to be the one to say it honey, but he’s using you - just as he is every woman he’s talking to on-line. If these woman want things returned, or money owed - that right there tells you these women are more than friends. Meeting for coffee? Yeah, and he’s dipping his donut!! He’s got the best of both worlds right now - you are living there, providing him his needs, and he gets to fool around on the side too! I know it hurts to come to this realization, but yes, get out before you get hurt worse. He’s a snake, he’s slime - you can never trust someone like him. I’ve been there, I wasted a lot of time with scum like him. I’m 36 and happily married now - don’t wait until you get old and bitter. LEAVE, forget him - it will hurt, but it WILL pass. Good luck. (I hope your already packing your things!)
That’s just down right insane. I don’t think a situation like this is worth giving another chance becuase this is the type of thing that he would still continue doing. I say consider moving out and breaking up with him. He most deffinatly can’t be trusted. Who knows what he does with these women while meeting up with them. Get out now. Good Luck.
Honey, I think in your heart you already know what you have to do. This guy you gave your heart to sounds like the poster child for user/player/manipulators. I realize it may be difficult to gather the courage to pack up and get out, (or put him out), but in the long and short run you will never regret it. But you’ll probably always regret rushing into living with a guy you didn’t really know. Chalk it up as a tough lesson in learning from your mistakes and slow down in the future. Good luck!
first off if he’s your boyfriend and he is happy with you then he should not go looking for conversation in other people. you and only you should always always be enough. Talking to women by speaking hi is being friendly, going looking for them to say hi is cheating whether it be physically, mentally, emotionally, or cyberally. It’s cheating and no you have no reasons to put your trust into him until he stops! Confront him let him know his conversations and coffee dates bother you and it’s either you or coffee if he chooses you trust him if he chooses coffee leave him. it takes TWO to make a relationship. you and him not you and THEM!!!
Follow your heart but trust your mind!!!!
its better you tel him that you dint like all this before it gets too late if he really like you then he will for sure do what you want him to you must trust him coz there is no relation without trust. ask him to spend some time with you instead of sitting on comp n chat you try to attract him more than before i mean to say pull him more to your side show or give him lots of love.
You’re kidding me right?
No, why would you? This is a giant red flag. I think it’s time to leave him.
Are you sure he is your boyfriend? He kinda sounds like a GIGOLO, Lady’s man (or he tries to be anyway!) Personally I could not live with that. You an either stay there to have a place and accept the cheating or move out or stay and cheat yourself just share the house per say.
You aren’t exactly a rocket scientist are you? Wake up, sister. He’s making a fool out of you.
Girl it’s been only 2 months, get rid of him before he gets rid of you.. he’s not trust worthy. Dump him.
Sounds like you have already got burnt. You should leave now and find someone who wants you and someone you can trust. Good luck.
GURL I THINK U HAVE GOT URSELF IN A NOT SO GOOD RELATIONSHIP. DON’T TRUST HIS *** AT ALL. WHAT DO U MEAN PAY THEM BACK? IT’S TOO MUCH FOR THE 06′ GOING INTO THE 07′. STEP IT UP AND STEP OUT!
Just from what I have read, he seems to not be satisfied with you. And I personally CAN NOT deal with a man that has female friends that he runs off with and has coffee with…how much coffee can one person drink in a day? Something sounds wrong, talk to him about it and then determine if you are willing to put up with it! My advice…find a better man!
You’ve been dating for 2 months and moved in with him over a month ago? Had you only known him a couple of weeks at that point? What possessed you to make such a HUGE move with someone you hardly know?
No…you should not believe they are just friends he’s chatting with…I can’t believe you even felt the need to ask this question, as if you were unsure of what’s going on…
Get out now…he’s not (currently) a one-woman man…
It looks like he is becoming less and less interested in you. But this happens all the time with guys. My best advice for you and your feelings would be to start shopping for a new boyfriend. But if you really like him and want to make it work, just ask him if he is happy being with you.
no but you should do the same thing and see how he likes it
Girl i went through EXACTLY The same situation. Drop him now! My ex talked to girls online all the time, until i finally caught him. he woudl tell them he was single and whenever he got mad at me, he would actually meet them. This is not right. If he has you as a girlfriend, then he needs to be w/ just you. if he wants to be talking to all of this other girls and meeting them, then he needs to be ALONE. THis is a trust issue, and is not going to change. I thought it would after giving him many changes, but it doesn’t honey. u will always wonder who’s he talking to. there’s tonsof guys outhere and you will survive this.
best of luck hon,
LATINA!
no beacuse if he is talking online to girls and asking them if they want to met you and have some coffe that is called a player so i don think you should be going out with him
Honey, if it were me..I would already be packed and gone.
Well I just read a book about a guy who was always owing woman money. That book turned out by saying he was married to God knows how many woman and was put in jail for embezzlement and fraud. He also killed his own children for their insurance money. This was a true story as well. But anyways let your heart guide you. If you feel this guy is lying to you then leave. If you feel he is being truthful then stay. Although I wouldn’t lone him any money and if you leave don’t forget anything. Plus if he was happy with you you would think he would leave the Internet to the real lonely men out there.
Absolutely… he’s addicted to online cheating. Stay away from them.. they’re dangerous. I was with my ex for 7 years and cheated on my soo many times like that. He always told me that they were friends, and that he’ll break off connections. Never happened, and always found more girls online. Its not good especially he has women asking him to return their things and pay them back. Thats almost sick. Please get out ASAP, its a red flag. The longer you stay, the more this @ss will hurt you. You deserve so much better!!
LOL! Of course they’re friends- he hasn’t been dating them long enough for them to be anything more– yet.
Your so-called boyfriend is chatting with and dating other women– and lying to you by calling them friends. No- he’s dating.
Move out- when you boyfriend is dating other women, it’s so over.
And a man who truly loved you wouldn’t be on the computer hunting for other women. Don’t be stupid. And stop being such a little weakling, cowering in the corner so afraid to upset the little *******. Sheesh!
I **** to be the one to say it honey, but he’s using you - just as he is every woman he’s talking to on-line. If these woman want things returned, or money owed - that right there tells you these women are more than friends. Meeting for coffee? Yeah, and he’s dipping his donut!! He’s got the best of both worlds right now - you are living there, providing him his needs, and he gets to fool around on the side too! I know it hurts to come to this realization, but yes, get out before you get hurt worse. He’s a snake, he’s slime - you can never trust someone like him. I’ve been there, I wasted a lot of time with scum like him. I’m 36 and happily married now - don’t wait until you get old and bitter. LEAVE, forget him - it will hurt, but it WILL pass. Good luck. (I hope your already packing your things!)
That’s just down right insane. I don’t think a situation like this is worth giving another chance becuase this is the type of thing that he would still continue doing. I say consider moving out and breaking up with him. He most deffinatly can’t be trusted. Who knows what he does with these women while meeting up with them. Get out now. Good Luck.
Honey, I think in your heart you already know what you have to do. This guy you gave your heart to sounds like the poster child for user/player/manipulators. I realize it may be difficult to gather the courage to pack up and get out, (or put him out), but in the long and short run you will never regret it. But you’ll probably always regret rushing into living with a guy you didn’t really know. Chalk it up as a tough lesson in learning from your mistakes and slow down in the future. Good luck!
first off if he’s your boyfriend and he is happy with you then he should not go looking for conversation in other people. you and only you should always always be enough. Talking to women by speaking hi is being friendly, going looking for them to say hi is cheating whether it be physically, mentally, emotionally, or cyberally. It’s cheating and no you have no reasons to put your trust into him until he stops! Confront him let him know his conversations and coffee dates bother you and it’s either you or coffee if he chooses you trust him if he chooses coffee leave him. it takes TWO to make a relationship. you and him not you and THEM!!!
Follow your heart but trust your mind!!!!
its better you tel him that you dint like all this before it gets too late if he really like you then he will for sure do what you want him to you must trust him coz there is no relation without trust. ask him to spend some time with you instead of sitting on comp n chat you try to attract him more than before i mean to say pull him more to your side show or give him lots of love.
I think its time to move around. He is a little playboy.